This is a very tough question, because you say you don't want to change your thinking, or essence, yet you want to present yourself to the world as a different, more confident person.
You will have to at least change your thinking, because you are locked in.
You will have to learn to disassociate yourself from your former self, and from your timidity, lose the emotions. You can actually do that by convincing yourself that what other people think is irrevalent, so you are free to speak your mind in class without being embarrassed.
You can continue to be a loner, but when you start speaking up, and still remain aloof, people will begin to see you in a different light.
Boys will see you as hard to figure out, and girls will see you as hard to get close to.
Both concepts will lead to people beginning to gravitate towards you, and as they do, your situation will begin to change.
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